As you learn to question, you will discover that there are two routes to perception in any given situation. While you may be quick to ascribe your point of view as 'positive' and the contradicting view as 'negative', realize that someone in argument with you may very well assume that they hold the 'positive' status. Although the idea of good and bad may feel natural, merely accepting the two sides as opposing forces, and shedding your partiality will expand your prospect.